Saturday, April 16, 2011

Guys, Girl, and the Internet.



Just do NOT mix. I never recommend getting into anything online, because it's not worth it. I spent a small part of my life getting myself into messes, I have to admit I somewhat liked doing it, and then it screwed up my life even more. None of it was real, and it was torture not being able to feel real life emotion, or even a real life human being. It's incredibly complicated, and I always thought my case was unique. All of it drove me to extreme sadness and other motivational, and medical issues. I actually got panic attacks at school when I'd "run in" to one of these guys. I ended up having friends abandon me sending my into a very painful time in my life. Funny though, I've been telling people I'd get an eHarmony account (or another online dating profile) partially as a joke, mostly for real. I'm cursed. I seem to fall for guys online, guys just seem to fall for me online, so why not go there? It's the proper way, it's set up, it's real, you end up meeting them and actually talking in the end....

Real life men? Don't even ask. It's hopeless. (I know I'm being a pessimist.)

xoxo lisa marie

9 comments:

  1. Maybe you should give it a go? Some of my good friends met via internet. One friend of mine even married her boyfriend and the have a little boy together now. Haha. :)
    But I can totally relate to your thoughts... XO.

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  2. I've always liked the idea of eHarmony! Why not try it, just to see how things go? You can keep us updated!

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  3. hon, you are definetely not being pessimist~~ just remember to always be yourself and dont try to change for anyone!!! love your blog, glad i stopped by!!! I'm your newest follower!!

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    xoxo
    ani

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  4. Just go gor it! But also try to remember that you don't need a guy to be happy, sometimes they just wander into your life when you aren't looking.

    Whatever you choose to do, I wish you luck, not that you need it though since you are a cute girl and you are obviously intelligent. :)

    Have a great weekend!

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  5. Some girls are just really odd but that's what makes them so special. You just need to find a guy who complements you.

    I'm no lady luck when it comes to guys either...the last one I was interested in turned out to be a complete nut job.

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  6. I must agree, although I was always very skeptical about online dating. If you're careful you can find a great guy even through the Internet. I am pretty young and my longest lasting relationship so far was born with a help of internet:)
    much love!<3

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  7. I've not tried it but I know a lot of people who swear by internet dating. Good luck both on (and off) the web. :)

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  9. I have met lovely people online, and some of my friends actually met their partners through the internet.

    You never know who you will meet next online, he or she could change your life. :)


    xoxo,
    Addie
    The Cat Hag

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